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Emotional Regulation: Understand, Name & Shift Your Emotions

Emotional Regulation: Understand, Name & Shift Your Emotions

These DBT skills help you manage intense emotions without being controlled by them.

These DBT skills help you manage intense emotions without being controlled by them.

Person sitting quietly with a calm, grounded expression, gently regulating their emotions. A soft, peaceful setting that reflects DBT emotional regulation skills—naming, understanding, and shifting emotions with care.
Person sitting quietly with a calm, grounded expression, gently regulating their emotions. A soft, peaceful setting that reflects DBT emotional regulation skills—naming, understanding, and shifting emotions with care.

Feelings Wheel PDF

Feelings Wheel PDF

Blog: Avoid Emotions

Blog: Avoid Emotions

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DBT Tracker

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What Is Emotion Regulation in DBT?

Emotion Regulation is one of the four core modules in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). It equips individuals with skills to understand, manage, and change intense emotions that may be causing problems in their lives. The goal is not to suppress emotions but to experience them in a more balanced and less overwhelming way.


Goals of Emotion Regulation

  • Understand and name emotions: Recognize what you're feeling and why.

  • Reduce emotional vulnerability: Build resilience against emotional upheaval.

  • Decrease emotional suffering: Learn strategies to cope with intense emotions constructively.

These skills are particularly beneficial for individuals who experience mood swings, anger, anxiety, or emotional numbness.

What Is Emotion Regulation in DBT?

Emotion Regulation is one of the four core modules in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). It equips individuals with skills to understand, manage, and change intense emotions that may be causing problems in their lives. The goal is not to suppress emotions but to experience them in a more balanced and less overwhelming way.


Goals of Emotion Regulation

  • Understand and name emotions: Recognize what you're feeling and why.

  • Reduce emotional vulnerability: Build resilience against emotional upheaval.

  • Decrease emotional suffering: Learn strategies to cope with intense emotions constructively.

These skills are particularly beneficial for individuals who experience mood swings, anger, anxiety, or emotional numbness.

What Is Emotion Regulation in DBT?

Emotion Regulation is one of the four core modules in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). It equips individuals with skills to understand, manage, and change intense emotions that may be causing problems in their lives. The goal is not to suppress emotions but to experience them in a more balanced and less overwhelming way.


Goals of Emotion Regulation

  • Understand and name emotions: Recognize what you're feeling and why.

  • Reduce emotional vulnerability: Build resilience against emotional upheaval.

  • Decrease emotional suffering: Learn strategies to cope with intense emotions constructively.

These skills are particularly beneficial for individuals who experience mood swings, anger, anxiety, or emotional numbness.

Reduces emotional outbursts

Reduces emotional outbursts

Reduces emotional outbursts

Gain tools to manage and prevent overwhelming reactions in challenging moments.

Gain tools to manage and prevent overwhelming reactions in challenging moments.

A person gently holding their chest or forehead with eyes closed, sitting in a soft, calm space — showing emotional intensity shifting into grounding
A person gently holding their chest or forehead with eyes closed, sitting in a soft, calm space — showing emotional intensity shifting into grounding
A close-up of a person with their hand over their heart or chin, pausing in deep thought before speaking or acting.
A close-up of a person with their hand over their heart or chin, pausing in deep thought before speaking or acting.

Respond, not react

Respond, not react

Respond, not react

Pause before acting so you can choose wise, effective responses with clarity.

Pause before acting so you can choose wise, effective responses with clarity.

More stability and control

More stability and control

More stability and control

Find steadiness and self-mastery as your skills build emotional safety.

Find steadiness and self-mastery as your skills build emotional safety.

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Understanding emotions.

Understanding emotions.

Name Emotions: Label your feelings. Check the Facts: Is your emotion justified? Function: What is this feeling trying to tell you?

Name Emotions: Label your feelings. Check the Facts: Is your emotion justified? Function: What is this feeling trying to tell you?

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Reducing vulnerability.

Reducing vulnerability.

PLEASE Skills: Care for body and mind. Build Mastery: Small wins matter. Opposite Action: Do what works, not what urges.

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Changing emotions.

Changing emotions.

Try opposite action. Face fears slowly. Use coping skills like self-validation or imagery.

Try opposite action. Face fears slowly. Use coping skills like self-validation or imagery.

Practice: Name it to Tame it

Let’s slow down for a moment. Close your eyes. Ask: What emotion am I feeling right now? Name it out loud or type it in your notes.

Say: “It’s okay to feel [emotion]. I am allowed to have emotions.”

Elara can guide you

Elara can guide you

Not sure where to start? Chat with Elara for support with DBT emotional regulation.

Not sure where to start? Chat with Elara for support with DBT emotional regulation.

Not sure where to start? Chat with Elara for support with DBT emotional regulation.

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Blog: Avoid Emotions

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You’re not broken.

You’re not broken.

You’re learning emotional skills.

You’re learning emotional skills.

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